Every time i faced with difficults ,i spoke to myself i was the best and i can overcome it ,then i managed to do that;
Every time i failed in exams ,i said to myself that it was not the final exam ,i was able to do better in the future,then i improved little by little ;
But now ,when i can't get along well with some of my roommates,i am in great confusion and i don't know how should i deal with it.I know everyone is excellent in my room ,but how can they ingore others' feelings and do everything just as their ideas without the rest's agrement.even sometimes i want to give him a blow when some of them talk to me so loudly while i seak to him softly .But i know i won't ,after all ,we come from the same university and we need to be good friends for a long time .
I am confused ,so i need some time to adjust myself to this situation……
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if you have a problem with someone,i think it's better to invite him for a drink and tell him what you really feel or want.most times he may understand you and problem solved.
ReplyDeleteCommunication is the best way to solve problems. You and your roommates are from different places, so you may have different habits. Try to understand them and I believe you will get along well with your roommates soon.
ReplyDeleteAs they all said,communicate with your roommates may help you to deal with this problem.You can try to express your fellings and the willings to get along well with them.Good luck!
ReplyDeleteTalking more to them who you have a problem with, then make them know your felling. Well, if you really can not get along well with them, never mind, because we,students in group 7, are all your good friends.
ReplyDeleteTake it easy. Most of they may not kown how to express themselves. You all came from the same university, as you said, you will be friends forever.
ReplyDeleteYou can get along with them by palying games,talking your own stories,and so on,to know more about them.Then you are more familiar with each other,and find you are brothers.
ReplyDeleteOK,what you said is indeed a problem. As your neibour,i never see the problem in your room. you come from sichuan,and six of the ten are from sichuan,i think it should be easy to get along well with each other. in a group or community we need considerater and patient hearts so that we can live together joyously. ISN'T IT? COME ON!
ReplyDeletethank you all my teammates.all my good friends,having heard your advice,i think i know how to solve the problem now .i will try my best ^^^
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