Last Friday, we had a heated debate about whether the cohabitation between two students in campus is advantage or disadvantage for them. Though I am open-minded to this phenomenon now, I still think cohabitation is not suitable for our undergraduate.
First cohabitation is not under protection, so if the couples are unfortunately broken, the couples’ rights cannot be protected.
Then cohabitation will reduce the freshness between couples. So if the boyfriends and girlfriends can get married. They may feel boring because after cohabitation, they may be too familiar with each other. It is not good for their marriage.
In addition, cohabitation will lose lots of chance, as a student, in campus we have a lot of opportunities to make friends and to participate in activities. It is good for us to adapt ourselves to societies. If we choose the cohabitation, we will pay the house rate and live outside. So we will lose lots of chance.
However though there are so many disadvantages towards cohabitation why there so many people choose it? Maybe some of them think cohabitation is fashion, it shows how tied the relationships between these! It shows to us how vogue they are! But according to our other three debaters speaking, it cannot be the tie between boyfriends and girlfriends, and as …saying, it will reduce the fresh between the relationships, maybe it do harm to them! If the relationship is unfortunately broken, it will do more harm! I think that is why most of women regret having cohabitation. As a student in campus, staying in resident and hall! You will have more chance to join in hall activities and try your best to make more friends and adapt more to the society the teamwork, it is more important than cohabitation, than just stay with your darling all the time. At last, I hope everyone can have a suitable one, but during your love, keep a little rational and do not choose cohabitation.
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I agree with you. I think young people are supposed to think twice on not only the cohabitation bu also the relationship with others. If they have come across the one they value very much, then just go ahead. If they just feel lonely and want someone else to be with them, they should think more. Love is priceless.
ReplyDeletepersonally, i absolutely oppose to cohabitation.,although it seems common in western universities. immature minds would result in some severe consequences,especially when it comes to the issue of sex. there is a lot of evidence showing that adolescents are better to live separately.
ReplyDeletePersonally speaking, i do not support cohabitation before marriage. We need to be responsible to our lovers and ourselves. And the premise is that we can take the responsibility!
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion, cohabitation is not right tradionally. I will not choose a friend who has the cohabitation experience. People should think clearly before they take steps to do something...
ReplyDeleteOur chinese people are conservative about sex. But cohabitation is an attractive thing which many people would try. It is hard to distinguish whether cohabitation is bad or not.
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