In general, everyone has a secret which exists deeply in his heart. Obviously, telling your secrets to a reliable person can definitely release your pressure and nerve. Then the question is who I can turn for help. Let me share my opinions with you.
Typically, the majority of us will surly choose our parents. No matter how surprising your secrets are, your parents are the best choices to confide in. Evidently, they will give you the best and most suitable solution and advice to you. Besides this, they have more experience than us and have a systematically concept of what is right and wrong. However, we still have some secrets which can not be told to them. The reason is that sometimes our behaviors infringe their requirements and the behaviors are the very secrets for us. As a young boy or girl, who do not have a secret of his or her loved people?
Naturally, you want to turn to your close friends for advice. To some extent, you friends know you better than your parents. Due to the same age, their words will somehow comfort you and make you feel completely free. On the other hand, they can easily let your secrets out to the other people. It will soon be a disaster that everyone knows your secrets. It takes lots of time and effort to deal with them.
To write them down on whether a piece of paper or the computer is a personally way to not only avoid letting them out but also release your feelings. People say that it is beneficial to keep a diary. Frankly, I do not have a diary but I heard one of my friends who keeps a diary said that he found that all the sorrow and pain washed away after had put down the diary.
Nevertheless, it is complex and complicating to keep a diary.
A modern way is to write your secrets on a short message and send them to the radio station. The anchorperson can give you a lot of suggestions without knowing you. But, it will surly cost you lots of money and the suggestions can not be directed against your problems.
The last way is to keep the secrets to yourself and do not let it out.
In conclusion, when you have a secret, you can turn to these people and share it with them.
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Yeah, we have to share with our secret with others and i prefer to keep them in my dairy.Every time i reread them i can think about them in a new way and learn a lot from them. Sometimes they are long essays,but sometimes they are just sentences or even words.Sometimes they are in Chinese, and sometimes they are in English.You can keep a dairy,too.Maybe just a few sentences but they can really make you feel relaxed.
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