At present, divorce rates are rising among the world. Divorce seems to be a symbol of freedom or human rights, because anyone can end his or her marriage out of his or her will. But, a simple fact that they have promised to have and hold each other forever seems to have been forgot. When facing a crossroad towards freedom or responsibility, people always choose the former. That’s why things happen without an alert.
In addition, most divorce happens among young couples in China, causing a more and more lack of sensitivity of responsibility. As a young adult, I ask me a question for many times: what is the meaning of marriage? I think couples live together not only for love, but also for something else, maybe for memory, maybe for the wedding words. It is said that a world without love is hardly to survive in; nevertheless, a world only with love is a dream: when you suddenly wake up, you will find that all the good have vanished.
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sometimes, marriage is the grave of love. due to work pressure, children, taking care of parents, couples have less sweetness and happiness than before. responsibilities partly replace emotional relationship. However, it is still a kind of subtle love. Perseverance is the eternal love.
ReplyDeleteWhat is the meaning of marriage? In my mind, we get married because of love. If there is no love in the marriage, I think the marriage is a failure. However, I think when people get married, most of them love each other very much. Why the rate of divorce is so high? My friend said that when two persons met each other, at first they had a good feeling about each other. As time went and they got to know more about each other, they loved each other deeper. Next, the love would fade. It is very hard to love a person from the time you first met to the death. However, I wouldnot deny the existence of it. I just said the common situation. More common, the love between them became family ties. To some degree, this relationship was also a kind of love. In marriage, love, understanding and trust are the most important. Sometimes, if you love someone so much that you are afraid to lose her or him. You may doubt her action and your love. It is always easier to say than to do. Just as you said, for divorce, I cannot deny that some people are in lack of responsibilities. Sometimes, they love each other too much, so they will always think too much for each other. They think the one they love will understand too much. As time goes, they will have more gaps between them and at last most likely, they divorce. In marriage, talk is very important. No matter whether he or she knows or not, talk to her or him. Let him or her know you love her or him.
ReplyDeleteIn addition, I agree that the dream with only love is a dream, but you said that when you suddenly wake up, you will found that all the good had vanished. Sometimes good things cannot last so long. However, the memory we have had is good, isnot it? What is more, there is no need to focus on the result. If we have had a great time, that is enough. Please be opstimistic, the world will be more beautiful.
In my opinion, all the love in the world is like a sine curve, which are not always the ups nor full of downs. The only difference from different couple are the time that ups or downs last. Every couple have to experience the downs and only when they stand the test can they have a long-lasting marriage. However, more and more people today neglecting this rule. They just dream about a perfect marriage which has no sorrow or quarrel. Once they encounter some unexpected problems, they will doubt their love and end the marriage immediately. In my own opinion, I prefer a life-long marriage. Therefore, I need to be more tolerate and braver from now on .
ReplyDeleteAdmittedly, many factors contribute to the divorce nowadays. However, we should not lose hope in the true love in human beings. Although they may feel your spouse is not suitable for you, do you ever think of changing yourself to be suitable for your spouse. Besides, for the sake of children, parents should think twice before they make decisions.
ReplyDeleteAs the divorce rates are increasing at an incredible speed in the whole world,the reason for this deserves to be pondered.Nowadays,many young couples get divorced several years or even several months after their marriages.As far as I am concerned,it is necessary for those young people to think twice before they decide to tie the knot.
ReplyDeleteIf the couple do not live a happy life, in my opinion, divorce is a good way to both side. They can find another mate and start the new life. It is better than suffering in the unhappy marriage.
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