The Wink

This week, we learned one article in the SM19 called “the wink”. I must admit that this article has left me a deep impression and cause some echo in my heart.

As described in the article, the relationship between the couple seems odd in others’ eyes. They all think the mother is harsh and the father id henpecked and the author often sees his mother tick off her grievances against his father. However during the ten days when the mother was hospitalized due to the diabetes, the author gain priceless insight and realized that there were full of love and passion between his parents.

From a very young age, my family filled with fights and quarrels and my mother even escape home for months. I once hated them not because the poverty we had to suffer (to tell the truth, I enjoyed it), but because they often beat me without any reason. Their quarrel often ended with my deadly crying, though I am submissive from a very young age. As I grew up, I gradually realized that I was wrong. Both of them are kind but aggressive people, and they cannot accept the reality that their status seems lower than others. My father once told me that he felt unfair and envious of me, because he could not have the chance to go on study although he once was the best student in the middle school. They are very diligent even now they are still renowned for their hard work; however due to the special situation of my grandparents and me, their earning could not afford the expense. Year after year, their temple change gradually. Their love was emerged when my father had his operation on the back, when my mother was in hospital due to high blood pressure.

Life often goes like that others cannot understand your behavior, because you are the only people in the commitment.